Memory Care at Home STL

St. Louis and the surrounding counties

This site is about non-medical support in a person's own home. It is not about residential memory care facilities, and it does not rate any.

Read this first

This page ranks states on one survey answer. It ranks no providers, no towns and no facilities, and it has nothing to say about residential memory care.

Everyone counted here had already told the survey that their memory was getting worse. The figures are a share of that group and of nobody else, so they cannot be read as a share of all older adults, and they say nothing about the person you care for.

If the practical side of this is what you need, the page to read is what a day of support at home looks like. If the question is medical, it belongs with the person's doctor.

Memory loss gets in the way for three in ten who report it

Of the older Missourians who say their memory is getting worse, roughly three in ten say it has started to interfere with the things a household runs on: chores, errands, seeing people. Across the river the share is far higher, and the gap is the most striking thing in this survey.

There is a difference between noticing and being stopped. A person can know perfectly well that their memory is slipping and still run their own kitchen, keep their own appointments and turn up to church on Sunday. For a long time, that is most people.

This page is about the point where that stops being true. The survey behind it asks the people who reported memory trouble a follow-up: does it interfere with your ability to take part in social activities or do household chores. Not whether they have been diagnosed with anything, and not whether they need someone else to step in, which is a separate question with its own page. Just whether the ordinary shape of a week has started to give.

It is a gentle question and a useful one, because household chores and social life are precisely the ground that non-medical support at home stands on. Nobody comes to the house to treat a condition. They come so that the laundry gets done, the shopping happens, and the person is not alone with the day. A survey figure about interference is, in the plainest sense, a survey figure about the need for that kind of company.

Where Missouri lands, and where Illinois does

In Missouri, 29.1 percent of older adults who reported memory loss said it interferes with social activities or household chores. That places the state 26 of 46, almost exactly in the middle of the table. The confidence range the CDC publishes runs from 22.8 to 36.2 percent.

Illinois reports 49.2 percent and ranks 1 of 46, the highest in the whole series. Its range, from 34.8 to 63.7 percent, is also the widest in the table by a distance, which is the survey's way of saying that the Illinois sample on this question was small. The top of Missouri's range and the bottom of Illinois's overlap by a little over a point, so the difference between the two states is real in the estimates and not quite settled in the ranges. It should be held loosely.

What is not in doubt is the spread of the table as a whole. Eight jurisdictions sit at forty percent or above, Illinois first and then the District of Columbia at 44.1 percent. Five sit below twenty, down to Colorado at 15.1. Missouri, at 29.1, is closer to the quiet end of that spread than the loud one, and a family here should probably take that as reassurance about the state and nothing more.

The denominator, once more

These are not shares of all older adults. They are shares of the smaller group who had already said their memory was getting worse. In Missouri that first group is a little over one in nine older adults, and it is ranked separately on the by-state page. A state where few people admit to memory trouble may be a state where only the people with the most trouble say so, which pushes this second figure up. Illinois is a case in point: it sits near the bottom of the first table and at the top of this one.

Every jurisdiction in the series

All 46 states and jurisdictions with a complete set of figures in this series, highest first. Missouri is shaded, Illinois is lightly shaded. The range is the confidence interval the CDC publishes with each estimate.
RankState or jurisdictionInterferes with chores or social lifeRange
1Illinois49.2%34.8 to 63.7
2District of Columbia44.1%32.8 to 56.1
3Mississippi43.8%37.4 to 50.5
4New York43.3%36.4 to 50.5
5Louisiana42.4%32.9 to 52.6
6Rhode Island41.5%31.8 to 51.9
7North Carolina41.4%29.3 to 54.6
8Kentucky40.5%29.8 to 52.2
9Tennessee39.7%33.1 to 46.8
10Hawaii38.7%30.5 to 47.6
11Texas38.5%32.9 to 44.4
12Arkansas36.2%28.3 to 45.0
13Oklahoma36.2%29.2 to 43.9
14Alabama35.6%28.9 to 43.0
15Florida35.3%24.8 to 47.6
16South Carolina34.2%28.3 to 40.5
17California34.0%24.0 to 45.7
18New Mexico33.9%26.0 to 42.8
19Georgia33.2%26.7 to 40.3
20Pennsylvania32.6%24.1 to 42.3
21West Virginia32.3%25.3 to 40.2
22Michigan31.4%24.9 to 38.8
23New Hampshire30.8%22.7 to 40.3
24Iowa30.3%21.4 to 41.0
25Washington30.3%23.6 to 37.9
26Missouri29.1%22.8 to 36.2
27Ohio29.0%22.7 to 36.2
28Indiana27.7%21.7 to 34.6
29Utah27.3%22.4 to 32.9
30Wisconsin26.6%21.3 to 32.7
31Wyoming26.4%17.8 to 37.3
32Connecticut26.3%15.3 to 41.5
33Maryland26.1%17.8 to 36.6
34Maine25.8%20.2 to 32.4
35Kansas25.7%19.3 to 33.4
36Nebraska25.2%19.6 to 31.9
37Oregon25.2%17.4 to 35.0
38Virginia24.7%20.6 to 29.4
39Vermont21.9%15.9 to 29.4
40Idaho21.6%16.2 to 28.3
41Arizona20.5%15.1 to 27.2
42Alaska19.9%11.7 to 31.7
43Minnesota18.3%14.0 to 23.4
44Nevada18.1%12.9 to 24.8
45North Dakota16.7%11.6 to 23.5
46Colorado15.1%10.6 to 20.9

The five lowest in the series

The bottom of the table is worth a look on its own, because it is where the ranges get tight and the figures get small. These five are ordered from the lowest upwards.

  1. Colorado, 15.1 percent of those reporting memory loss, range 10.6 to 20.9
  2. North Dakota, 16.7 percent of those reporting memory loss, range 11.6 to 23.5
  3. Nevada, 18.1 percent of those reporting memory loss, range 12.9 to 24.8
  4. Minnesota, 18.3 percent of those reporting memory loss, range 14.0 to 23.4
  5. Alaska, 19.9 percent of those reporting memory loss, range 11.7 to 31.7

What interfering does not mean

It does not mean a diagnosis. Nobody in this survey was examined, tested or seen by a clinician as part of answering it. A person who says memory trouble interferes with their chores may have any of a long list of things going on, several of which are treatable, and the only way to find out which is the appointment this site keeps pointing at.

It does not mean the person needs someone else in the house. That is the next question in the survey, and the survey asks it separately for a reason. Interference is the stage where a household starts to compensate: lists on the fridge, a neighbour who checks in, a daughter who does the big shop. Needing help is the stage where compensating is no longer enough. Missouri ranks in the middle on the first and near the top on the second, which suggests that, here, the gap between the two stages may be shorter than families expect.

And it does not mean anything about where to live. Interference with chores is, if anything, the case for support at home rather than against it, because chores are the thing a caregiver in the house takes on. The National Institute on Aging's guidance on adapting activities for people with Alzheimer's disease is written for exactly this territory, and it assumes the person is at home.